Alcohol | What You Haven’t Changed, You’ve Chosen

Kohdi Rayne
3 min readOct 30, 2022

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You’re stuck?

Kohdi Rayne | Beyond Sober
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You’ve been to counseling, and you’ve tried a ton of different self-help techniques, but you simply can’t seem to get to the bottom of what the actual problem is.

You’ve done all that’s expected of you; you visited YouTube, and you googled the issue.

Perhaps you even attended one or two of the programs that you were offered.

But why isn’t it having any effect?

And what gives you such a hard time about this?

Do you continue to have the notion that there’s anything wrong with you?

You still feel permanently broken?

Maybe you believed that if you put in enough effort, you could make some sort of magic happen.

It’s possible that somebody will just come along and solve that situation for you when you least expect it. Right?

It’s possible that you’re going to get up in the morning and find that you don’t have to worry about that problem anymore. Really?

Everything is just passing by including the current problem, right?

There is a rationale behind the fact that none of these solutions are working for you.

It’s not built for someone like you.

In addition, it was not intended for people who struggle in the same way that you do, and it was not created for people like you.

This is the honest truth.

You are continuing to struggle mostly due to the fact that you are concentrating all of your attention on the issue at hand.

Simply eliminating the symptom does not address the underlying cause of the issue.

Therefore, altering a software’s settings will not fix the reason why the program does not operate for you.

Same goes for sobriety solutions.

And it was for this same reason that I established Beyond Sober.

It is not about finding solutions to your difficulties because the issue will resolve itself if you put your attention on the things in your life that are succeeding.

There is no need for concern regarding your health from a symptom level.

Beyond Sober assists you in addressing the personal issues that arise in your day-to-day existence and are the root cause of your decision to engage in that harmful habit in the first place.

Would you still be the same person even if your environment under you went a complete transformation?

Would you still be the same person even if you made the decision to stop engaging in that harmful activity cold turkey?

Or, if you did not engage in such poisonous behavior, would you still identify with who you believe you are?

If the answer to that question is “yes”, then that brings up the main problem.

Over the course of your existence, you have developed into somebody who operates with toxicity in an endless number of different ways, and you include that way of thinking and that poison into each and every solution.

I want to encourage you to get in touch with me or take a look at Beyond Sober.

Especially if you’re fed up with the abundance of free information and self-help resources that are already available to you but aren’t producing the outcomes that you desire.

In the end, finding solutions to your symptoms is not the point because they will always arise.

The goal is to assist you in becoming an individual who is immune to the development of those difficulties.

It doesn’t matter where you are on your path; if you don’t make a change, you’ve already chosen it.

And that is something that is going to continue to plague you in each and every decision that you make from this point on.

I’m here to help you avoid health risks associated with drinking.

@Kohdi

Beyond Sober

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Kohdi Rayne
Kohdi Rayne

Written by Kohdi Rayne

I’m an ex-alcoholic and liver failure survivor actively helping the world recover from toxic habits and design a life they love to live.

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