Exploring the Controversy: Is There a Difference Between Having an Addiction and Being an Ex-Alcoholic?
Every day, someone in my comments online wants to type at the top of their lungs with absolute certainty that “Once in alcoholic, always in alcoholic”.
“Once an addict, always an addict”.
They believe so wholeheartedly and with absolute conviction that once you develop the “disease” of alcoholism that you are forever broken and there is no cure.
No matter how much success or healing you’ve achieved.
Little do they know that is absolutely incorrect and believing that is the reason they will constantly live on the edge of taking a drink for the rest of their life.
You see, having an addiction means that you’re still struggling with the urge to drink or use drugs, even though you know it’s harming you.
It’s a daily battle, and it can be incredibly frustrating and exhausting.
But becoming an ex-alcoholic means that you’ve successfully overcome your addiction.
You’re no longer controlled by the desire to drink or use drugs, and you’re able to live a happy and fulfilling life without them. It’s not an easy journey, but it’s one that’s worth taking.
Calling yourself an “alcoholic” even when you are sober and have no intention of drinking can keep you in a state of fear and can ultimately lead to subconscious thoughts of wanting a drink.
This is because language has a powerful impact on our thoughts and beliefs, and labeling ourselves as alcoholics can reinforce the idea that we are defined by our relationship with alcohol.
When we identify as alcoholics, we may feel a sense of fear and anxiety about our ability to remain sober.
We may be constantly on edge, worried that we will somehow “slip up” and drink again.
This fear can be overwhelming and can prevent us from fully enjoying our sobriety.
Furthermore, labeling ourselves as alcoholics can also keep us on the edge of wanting a drink.
Even when we are committed to sobriety, the idea that we are “alcoholics” can linger in the back of our minds.
This can create a sense of temptation and can make it harder to resist the urge to drink.
Ultimately, it is important to remember that sobriety is a journey and that we are not defined by our past relationship with alcohol.
By letting go of labels and focusing on our progress and growth, you will build a healthier and more fulfilling life from a place of empowerment.
There are people out there who want to help you, and who understand what you’re going through.
Reach out for support, and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
And if you’re an ex-alcoholic, please remember that you’re an inspiration to others.
Keep fighting for your sobriety, and never give up on yourself.
