Healing & Thriving Despite Adversity: A Journey Through Sobriety

Kohdi Rayne
2 min readJan 10, 2023

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Addiction, pain, suffering, and trauma are all significant challenges that no one should have to endure.

But unfortunately, these struggles are all too common for many people.

Often, those who are struggling the most feel the most isolated and unheard.

Underneath all the pain and suffering, there is a person who longs to be recognized, understood, and treated with dignity.

They want to be seen as an individual rather than just a cog in the machine.

When we are listened to and understood, it can give us a sense of confidence in ourselves and the realization that our worth is not dependent on others or external circumstances.

This sense of self-worth must come from within.

However, we are often taught to keep our pain to ourselves and to believe that the harder we fight, the happier we will be in the end.

But this is not true.

True happiness and contentment come from within, and we can begin the journey towards it by showing ourselves love, respect, and appreciation.

If you are struggling and feeling like no one cares, it’s important to remember that you do matter.

The difficulties you have faced, or the judgment of others do not diminish your inherent value and worth.

Just by existing, you are important.

Your very presence generates heat and affects the world around you.

Believe in your own importance and value.

It can be easy to get trapped in a cycle of negative thoughts and feelings when we are going through tough times.

That’s why it’s crucial to remember that we all deserve love, respect, and understanding, no matter what challenges we may be facing.

Seeking support from loved ones, friends, or a professional therapist can be a helpful way to work through these challenges and build self-worth and resilience.

One way to start this journey is by practicing self-care and taking time to focus on our own needs and well-being.

This can include activities like exercise, meditation, or simply taking time to relax and do something we enjoy.

By prioritizing self-care, we can begin to cultivate a sense of self-worth and inner peace, even in the face of challenges.

Remember, you are not alone, and there are people and resources available to support you on your journey towards healing and self-acceptance.

The road ahead may not be easy, but it’s worth it because the possibilities for a fulfilling and meaningful life grow infinitely when we start to believe in our own worth and value.

-Kohdi | BeyondSober.org

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Kohdi Rayne
Kohdi Rayne

Written by Kohdi Rayne

I’m an ex-alcoholic and liver failure survivor actively helping the world recover from toxic habits and design a life they love to live.

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