‘Sober’ Is A Destination. ‘Sobriety’ Is A Practice

Kohdi Rayne
2 min readOct 14, 2022

You’re stuck?

You’ve tried therapy…

…You’ve tried a ton of self-help solutions and you just can’t seem to break through what the real issue is.

You’ve done all the traditional things you were on YouTube, googled it, maybe you even went to a program or two.

But why isn’t it working? And why can’t you figure this out?

Do you still think there’s something wrong with you?

Do you still feel “forever broken”?

Maybe you thought that if you think hard enough some magic will happen?

Maybe somebody’s just going to show up and fix that problem for you.

Maybe you’re going to wake up and you’re not going to have that issue at all.

Everything’s temporary. Including this issue, right?

There’s a reason why none of this is working for you.

That’s because it’s not designed for someone like you.

And it’s specifically not designed for someone like you struggling in the way that you are.

Here is the truth.

The main reason why we continue struggling is because we’re focusing 100% on the problem.

Fixing the problem doesn’t fix why it happens.

So, changing a program doesn’t fix why the program doesn’t work for you.

And that’s exactly why I created the Beyond Sober.

It’s not about fixing your problems.

There’s nothing wrong with you.

Beyond Sober helps you address the personal problems that happen in your everyday life that led you to continue that toxic behavior.

If everything around you changed, would you still be the same person? If you just randomly decided to completely quit that toxic behavior.

Maybe it’s alcohol,

Would you still be the same person?

The same person but not drinking alcohol?

If the answer is yes, then that is the real issue.

Over time, you’ve become somebody that struggles with toxicity in an infinite number of ways, and you’re taking that thought and that toxicity into every single program that’s not designed for who you are.

So, if you’re tired of all the self-help and free information out there, that’s not giving you the results that you want, then I’m encouraging you to connect with me and look at the Beyond Sober.

After all, it’s not about fixing your problems.

It’s about helping you become someone incapable of creating those problems.

No matter where you are in your journey, if you don’t change it, you choose it.

And that’s just going to continue plaguing you in every single decision you make from here on out.

Follow for more and I’ll show you how to drink safe.

-Kohdi

Beyond Sober | Fixing The Problem Doesn’t Fix Why It Happens

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Kohdi Rayne

I’m an ex-alcoholic and liver failure survivor actively helping the world recover from toxic habits and design a life they love to live.