Thanking Our Younger Selves: How Sobriety Gives Us the Opportunity to Heal and Grow

Kohdi Rayne
2 min readDec 5, 2022

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Sobriety gives us the opportunity to thank our younger selves for struggling forward and putting us in a position to dramatically improve our lives.

It’s OK To Love The Person You Used To Be But, You Don’t Have To Like Them

As we grow and change, it is important to show love, respect, and appreciation to the old version of ourselves that was capable of drinking excessive amounts of alcohol.

When we are struggling with addiction, it can be easy to see ourselves as failures and to feel ashamed of our past behaviors.

However, it is important to remember that our past selves were doing the best they could with the knowledge and resources they had at the time.

By choosing to enter recovery and work towards sobriety, we are taking control of our lives and making positive changes.

As we journey towards sobriety, it can be helpful to express gratitude to our younger selves for their determination and resilience.

By acknowledging the struggles we have overcome and the progress we have made, we can build a sense of pride and self-worth.

This can help us to feel more confident and capable, and can support us as we continue to grow and heal.

It is also important to remember that we do not need to identify as the person who struggled with alcohol addiction.

We are not defined by our past mistakes, and we have the power to create a new identity for ourselves.

By embracing sobriety and committing to a healthy, fulfilling life, we can create a new version of ourselves that is stronger, happier, and more at peace.

In short, sobriety gives us the opportunity to thank our younger selves for their strength and perseverance.

By showing love, respect, and appreciation to the old version of ourselves, we can let go of shame and guilt and embrace a new, healthier identity.

-Kohdi | Beyond Sober

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Kohdi Rayne
Kohdi Rayne

Written by Kohdi Rayne

I’m an ex-alcoholic and liver failure survivor actively helping the world recover from toxic habits and design a life they love to live.

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