The Journey of Recovery: Getting Sober by Saying Yes to Life

Kohdi Rayne
2 min readNov 27, 2023

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The journey towards sobriety is not just a mere feat of willpower, it is a complete transformation. The process of becoming sober is not simply an act of denying oneself of alcohol, it is a holistic approach to recovery.

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The path to sobriety is less about saying no to drinks and more about saying yes to healthier alternatives and ultimately, a healthier life. At Beyond Sober, we believe that recovery is a journey that focuses on healing from within.

Recovery is a process that involves understanding and acknowledging the reasons why one finds solace in alcohol. It is about healing those wounds and allowing oneself to feel the pain instead of attempting to numb it with alcohol.

Sobriety is not just a state of being between drinks, it is a lifestyle choice — a commitment to living your best life.

Refusing a drink is truly commendable and shows your strong determination. However, what if we could channel that same energy towards embracing more nourishing and healthy habits?

What if instead of saying no to alcohol, we spent that energy saying yes to hydrating with water, replenishing our bodies with kombucha, going for a refreshing walk, or investing time in restful sleep? These positive changes would move us further away from the things we are trying to avoid.

Transitioning from a state of constant denial to a more proactive approach, where we embrace healthier habits, does not happen overnight. It requires time, energy, and focus — the same amount of time, energy, and focus that was once spent on drinking.

As we cultivate these healthier habits, we become less focused on resisting alcohol and more consumed by our new lifestyle of better choices and overall well-being.

Eventually, the realization comes. Suddenly, it’s not about having to resist anything. We are too engaged in saying yes to the things that enrich our lives, too busy living a fulfilled and positive life. It’s not about getting sober, it’s about recovery.

The journey of sobriety is not a destination, it’s a path of continuous growth. Let us guide you on this journey of recovery at Sober Not Sober, because sobriety is just the first step towards a fuller, healthier life.

K O H D I | Beyond Sober

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Kohdi Rayne
Kohdi Rayne

Written by Kohdi Rayne

I’m an ex-alcoholic and liver failure survivor actively helping the world recover from toxic habits and design a life they love to live.

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