Your Partner Only Opens Up To You When They’ve Had A Few Drinks?
Well, alcohol weakens our resolve to say “no” or exercise self-control.
Alcohol lowers the physical and mental restraint when they’re under the influence,
Having an argument is simple; who cares?
Since alcohol is a narcissist, it’s no surprise that people who drink excessively also develop narcissistic characteristics.
This result in heated debates and a ton of deflection and redirects.
If they are having trouble with alcohol and has developed these narcissistic characteristics.
Can you really expect them to want to discuss difficult concepts when they’re feeling the most uneasy? Not drinking.
When intoxicated, they are most at peace. ‘Normal’.
The times when they are sober are the most awkward because to them, being drunk is the norm.
Without their medication, they believe their every emotion and action has been conditioned by alcohol.
They have a hard time understanding what you’re saying and are generally thinking about alcohol the entire time you’re speaking,
Trying to make sense of their emotions is more challenging.
They need to get used to feeling things without alcohol or they will continue using a toxic mindset to process your feelings.